Boost Your Mental Presence with Rebound Rate Techniques

I spoke on the Cadre app yesterday about something that’s been on my heart again lately. In case you missed it, here’s what I shared.

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What I shared there was about something I call our rebound rate.

What Is the Rebound Rate?

By rebound rate, I don’t mean basketball stats or dating after a breakup. I mean the ability to notice when we’ve left the present moment and to come back quickly.

It’s not about never drifting away. The mind will wander, that’s what it does. The real question is: how fast can we return? How quickly can we wake back up to life, to reality, to truth?

A Harvard study found that people spend a significant portion of their waking hours distracted. About 47 percent of the time, they think about something other than what they’re doing. Almost half our lives, lost in thought and that wandering actually makes us less happy.

Which makes sense. When we’re not here, we’re missing what’s real. How often have you gone on a walk and replayed stories rather than immersing ourselves in nature?

A Personal Example

For years, I was hardly present. Always in my head, running stories, worrying about what was next.

A simple example? Driving.

I have found myself in situations like these often. I’m halfway down the highway and suddenly notice an exit coming up. It’s an exit I almost missed. That moment is a jolt and realization that I wasn’t truly paying attention to my drive at all. My hands were on the wheel, but my mind was somewhere else entirely. And in that instant, I snap back. I feel the wheel again. The hum of the tires. The fact that I’m actually here, moving through the world.

That’s the rebound rate. That little snap from chatter into presence.

It’s difficult when the external world is gloomy, stressful or heartbreaking. Those triggers are teachers to go inward. Can we accept reality as it is, even though it may tear us up inside? Can we re-align to a higher place after processing heavy emotions? Can we do this without letting them bring us down for a long period? It’s hard and we can’t escape feeling our emotions. However, we can notice the filter we’re seeing through. We can try to shift our perspective into a place of presence.

Over time, I’ve gotten better at it. I catch myself way more often now than I did five years ago or even a year ago. These days, I’m far more present in my day-to-day life. I still drift, but I rebound quicker. The gap is shorter. And that has changed everything.

Three Steps to Strengthen the Rebound

Here’s the simple practice that’s helped me strengthen my rebound rate.

Step 1: Notice and Process

You have to catch it. Notice when you’ve drifted. Maybe it’s tension in your chest, or the moment you realize you’ve been spiraling. Don’t shame yourself! Just see it, and honor it. Practicing self-awareness exercises can assist with this.

Step 2: Decide

Choose what to do with it. Do I want to let this keep running me, or can I choose differently? Am I still reacting or triggered? If I’m not able to choose from a higher place yet, I decide to keep working with that energy. I will do this until I can rise higher. That’s still a decision.

Step 3: Let Go or Take Inspired Action

If I’m ready, I act from inspiration, not reaction. If I’m not ready, I let it go. Sometimes the most powerful thing I can do is simply release it for now. Often times, letting go is the best action.

Why It Matters

Mind wandering is normal. Studies show our brains drift 30 to 50 percent of the time. Mindfulness is the art of noticing, deciding, and returning. It has been shown to reduce stress, anxiety, and even depression by as much as 30 to 60 percent.

The more we practice rebounding, the stronger and more natural it becomes.

A Small Practice

Try it right now.

Where’s your mind? Was it wandering as you read this? Was is judging, drifting, or commenting? If so, notice it. Decide if you want to be here. Then let go or lean back into the present moment.

That’s it. That’s a rebound.

Words of Wisdom

Eckhart Tolle once said, “One conscious breath in and out is a meditation.”

Presence isn’t about never leaving. It’s about coming home again and again.

And the magic is in the rebound.